Saturday, March 26, 2011

Don't Be Serious, Be Sincere

Few speeches remain fresh for ever in minds. Here is one such from the famous author of hit books like Five Point Someone, A Night @ Call Center, The Three Mistakes Of My Life and 2 States - Chetan Bhagat. This was given in June, 2008 as Inaugural Speech for the new batch at the Symbiosis BBA program, Pune. But this message is for all. Some portions are deleted to reduce the length.

 Don't just have career or academic goals. Set goals to give you a balanced, successful life. I use the word balanced before successful. Balanced means ensuring your health, relationships, mental peace are all in good order. There is no point of getting a promotion on the day of your break up. There is no fun in driving a car if your back hurts. Shopping is not enjoyable if your mind is full of tensions.

You must have read some quotes - Life is a tough race, it is a marathon or whatever. No, from what I have seen so far, life is one of those races in nursery school, where you have to run with a marble in a spoon kept in your mouth. If the marble falls, there is no point coming first. Same with life, where health and relationships are the marble. Your striving is only worth it if there is harmony in your life. Else, you may achieve the success, but this spark, this feeling of being excited and alive, will start to die.

One  thing about nurturing the spark - don't take life seriously.  Life is not to be taken seriously, as we are really temporary here. We are like a pre-paid card with limited validity. If we are lucky, we may last another 50 years. And 50 years is just 2,500 weekends.  Do we really need to get so worked up?

It's ok, bunk a few classes, goof up a few interviews, fall in love. We are people, not programmed devices.

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